The Church: Inclusive, yet Exclusive

This might sound like a very perplexing statement but I believe it is true; allow me to explain.
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The Church, made up of baptized believers in Jesus Christ, ought to be an inclusive welcoming community, yet it is at the same time an exclusive, or distinct, body.

Too often Christians fail to appreciate this paradox and opt for one extreme (inclusivity) or the other (exclusivity). Let’s see how this paradox is true, and ought to naturally flow from who we are, taking as our example the teachings of Jesus:

INCLUSIVE
Jesus was inclusive, if by that definition we mean welcoming or not embracing a judgementalism. He didn’t care if the person was the vilest sinner, He sought to be inclusive of everyone, for He had come as the Saviour of the world (in fact He said that He came to save not the “self-righteous” but sinners, Lk 5:32):

• Unwanted children: Let the little children come to me (Mt 19:14)
• The Infirm (A leper): And Jesus stretched out his hand and touched him, saying, “I will; be clean.” (Mt 8:3, emphasis mine)
• Tax Collectors: Zacchaeus, hurry and come down, for I must stay at your house today. (Lk 19:5)
• The Sexually Immoral (The Woman at the Well): The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.” (Jn 4:17–18).
• The list could go on…

Jesus met people and sought to provide them welcome and love just as our churches ought to be places where people feel safe, welcomed, unjudged and loved.

EXCLUSIVE
Yet, just as Jesus met people where they were, He didn’t desire them to stay there. In fact in the same breadth in which He displayed an inclusive spirit He made some very exclusive statements. His inclusivity serves to build trust for He wants us to exclusively trust in and follow him and there find true inclusion in the exclusive body of Christ, an entry that can only come through trusting in Him alone:

• I am the Way and the Truth and the Life, no one comes to the Father except through Me. (Jn 14:6)
• Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe is condemned already, because he has not believed in the name of the only Son of God. (Jn 3:16)
• So, therefore, any one of you who does not renounce all that he has cannot be my disciple. (Lk 14:33)
• Jesus said to her, “Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, 14 but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him will never be thirsty again.” (Jn 4:13–14)
• The list could go on…

Do you see the paradox in Jesus’ ministry? The Church has carried on this paradox. We care for the needs of all, minister to others, yet the family dividing line, the local church body, those who we believe represent Jesus is distinctly maintain through evidence of regeneracy, the gift of the Holy Spirit, baptism, membership, discipline, etc. The Church is an exclusive community that is inclusive.
In an age that champion’s unbridled inclusivity this paradox is a paradox indeed.

In an age where Christian writers speak of people needing to “belong before they believe” the call to “believe before you belong” sounds harsh. Yet when it is matched by the inclusive spirit Jesus displayed, the latter loses much of its apparent harshness. We do need to help people feel like they belong, but through that honest welcome, to help them see they must believe if they are to truly belong, belong to Christ and be members of the local body.

That is the paradox of the Church and it is the paradox of her Lord.